Ranting has been a regular thing among former best friends and couples. It happens after they break up their relationships.
They'll start dragging each other down over irreconcilable differences. Many of them do this in real life and on social media.
However, if you want to show maturity to the person who is ranting about you, these are the best ways to do it.
Ignore The Person
Don't try to reply to the person. What the person is looking for is your attention.
Remember the proverb that says, silence is the best answer for someone who is not wise.
The best way to do it is to avoid the person and act as if you didn't hear or see them.
The person is literally ranting about you just to distract you from many important things you are doing. Don't be distracted, stay focused.
Just Laugh It Off
One of the best ways to show maturity when someone is ranting about you is to just laugh it off. Just act as though you don't take the person seriously.
This will show the person that he or she does not have power over your emotions. They do not have the power to make you sad.
What the person is trying to achieve is to see you break down emotionally. So just laugh it off and stay calm.
No matter how strong the wind is, it can never trouble the peace of a mountain.
Don't Insult The Person Whenever You Are Debunking Wrong Statements
If the person makes derogatory statements about you, kindly debunk the statement and say the truth without insulting them.
Remember that when an abnormal person is throwing stones at you, if you go and throw stones back at the person, people will assume that both of you are abnormal.
So don't insult them back whenever they insult you. Just clamp down on every opportunity the person is trying to use to shame you.
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