Relationship between the male and female gender has been full of all kinds of battles because they seem not to understand each other. Without proper understanding of the unique characteristics of each gender, the disagreements and misunderstandings may linger . Men in every sense of life, are different from their female characters. , though our similarities attract us to each other, we are different and when the right understanding is absent, misunderstandings are inevitable . Women often times ask this question, "why are men like this"?.
These facts will actually give you the answers you crave.
MEN ARE LOGICAL WHILE WOMEN ARE EMOTIONAL.
Men by virtue of their divine wiring tend to think before they feel, while women feel before they think. A lot of women feel that men are too hard and a lot of men think that women are too emotional. These differences were not meant to cause separation but to complement each other. Then if it happens to be the other way round, that is, both husband and wife are emotional, then who strengthens and consoles who? Who thinks through or trashes out issues without emotional sentiment?
MEN ARE MOVED BY SIGHT WHILE WOMEN ARE MOVED BY WORDS.
Most women are easily swayed, easily gets carried away by the things they hear. A man is a visual being and moved by what he sees while women are audible being who are moved more by what they hear. Men need discipline with their eyes while women need discipline with their ears. For the men, it is not all that glitters that is gold, It goes beyond what you physically see. There are so many attractive products with expired/rotten contents. The eyes and ears are windows to the heart.
3. MEN ARE HEADLINERS WHILE WOMEN ARE DETAILERS
Women are more detailed than men, that is why most times, you get to hear some men say, "My wife is a talkative " .When a man gets the headline of an issue, he is okay but women want the details, a woman wants her husband to be explicit. When a woman asks the man, “how was your day”, he is most likely to reply with a mono - syllable “fine”. But when a man asks a woman, “how was your day”, she is likely to start giving account of how she was rudely treated by the bus conductor, how a colleague in the office was issued a query, and so many talks like that.
Men are often advised to give listening ears to women. This goes a long way to endear women because they naturally always want someone to confide in and empty their hearts to. So, if you are not always there to listen, they may look for other outlets.
WOMEN TEND TO BE NEATER AND MORE CONSCIOUS OF APPEARANCE THAN MEN.
By virtue of their creation, men are made from the dust while women were made from the rib of man. Some men naturally are very poor at housekeeping and personal cleanliness. Men tend to be dusty and less keen about their appearance, while the woman by creation is like a refinement and updated version of the man and so is keener on appearance. This does not only apply to appearance; also to the kitchen, the bedroom, the wardrobe, the toilet and bathrooms .
MEN FIND FULFILLMENT IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR JOB/CAREER WHILE WOMEN FIND FULFILLMENT IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH A MAN.
Women feel complete, having a man in their lives, while men on the other hand, feel fulfilled, having a good job. No matter how much a man loves his family, he finds fulfillment in his job/career and that is why when he loses his job or has no job, he feels less than a man. The women on the other side do not feel fulfilled until she has her man, no matter how successful she is. Over the years, men have discovered that no matter how much love the woman professes, without money, it is only a matter of time before the woman begins to complain. So, the man is always keen to acquire wealth in order to satisfy the financial needs of the woman and ultimately the respect of the woman.
WOMEN ARE MORE SENSITIVE THAN MEN.
Men really pay attention to things, they rarely work by their instincts. By virtue of being an emotional being, women are more intuitive and sensitive than men; a woman can sense trouble from a mile while a man may never do even if he is sitting next to trouble. There have been stories of men who failed to listen to their wives opinion and they lived to regret it. Instead of listening to their woman’s opinion, they considered it as “woman talk”.
MEN FORGET EASILY THAN WOMEN.
Majority of women have diaries where events are recorded. While some have physical diaries, others have mental and emotional diaries within them. Due to the tendency to record things in more permanent files, it becomes easy for men to forget more easily than woman. Women tend to prolong issues longer than necessary.
WOMEN TALK MORE THAN MOST MEN.
Men don't really have time for long talks, but women would always want to talk and also demand a listening ear. Due to the nature of women by virtue of their creative wiring, they talk more than most men do. What a man can say in one sentence a woman may need one paragraph to fully explain. Did you ever promise a woman a listening ear, then be sure your ears are in for a big task. So long you still show interest in the talk, she continues.
MEN LONG FOR POSITION AND RESPECT WHILE WOMEN LONG FOR LOVE AND SECURITY.
Most men by virtue of creation want to be respected and honoured while the women long to be loved. God knew this and that is why he said men should love while women should submit. This was to make both parties enjoy relational fulfillment.
If women can actually be aware of these facts, then it would really save us a whole lot of broken relationships.
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