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Opinion: My wife has refused to come home after graduating from the University in Ukraine

I sent my wife to Ukraine to study anesthesiology on the advice of my mentor and wedding sponsor,she left to Ukraine with our little girl leaving me with our three sons who are now staying with my parents in the village,they always come to visit me during weekends when am in town,it's almost 6years she left us.

She finished the course 2014 (almost 4years now) but refuse to come back home,she claims that she had an opportunity to major in pharmacology as she was offered scholarship by a Kiev based immigrant development program.

I sold my land at (sapele) to finance her before she left,now she is telling me that there is lots of poverty in Nigeria and I should start making arrangements to send our three sons over there while I plan on joining them when am ready.

I really think I have shot myself in the leg with my own gun,my worry is that she could afford to abandon her kids and start a new life over there,and this is really making me feel like am loosing my mind.

Since the past few months,I have refused to put the kids on the phone with her believing that she would miss them and think twice about what she was doing but I was mistaken,I am not stupid,I know a man is involved in this and that is why she is trying to run away from the marriage,so I accused her of being harbored by another man and also of cheating too.

She flared up accusing me of the same thing,she am being insecure and too obsessive,she even threatened to sue me for denying her access to her sons, early last year, during one of our argument,she told me that I was free to marry another woman if I can't wait for her and she told me,she have been hearing rumors of me not sleeping at home on weekends.

She told me all she wanted was to have her sons to herself and i can go and do anything I feel like doing she is not going to stop me.

Right now am confused,I can't abandon my family I still love my wife be right now am so confused on what to do at this point.

Please I need advice..

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