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10 Things That Girls Do Not Like In A Relationship

If you're a man putting in all efforts into knowing the woman of your life, you don't just have to know her past and future plans. There are a lot of other things you need to know, like what turned women on and off when it comes to their men. If you've figured out what turns your woman on, it is equally important to know what might turn her off. Now, these things have nothing to do with physical qualities. It's more to do with gaining an understanding of women and how they function and think. So let's look at the things that turn women off that men should totally stop doing.

1. Dishonesty

Being a liar is one of the biggest turn offs, not only for women but for everyone. This encompasses not being extremely clear about what your current relationship status is, or what your intentions are towards her. Men that lie cannot be trusted, and once even a white lie comes out of your mouth, it will be difficult for her to trust you. If you're dishonest it shows that you lack integrity and it also says that you have zero respect for the person you're lying to.

2. Ogling Other Women

Men who stare at other women or are overly flirtatious with them may find themselves largely on their own. Simply put, women like men who are respectful enough to pretend they don’t notice other women (even when they do).

3. Rudeness

Being rude to anyone is a big turn off for women. Whether it's a waitress, a bartender, a stranger. She will take notes of how rude you were with someone when you both were together and it will very much make her lose interest in you. A man trying to be funny at the cost of taking a dig at someone else is not going to make a woman laugh. Instead, she's going to start to wonder how you will behave with her in the future and it doesn't seem positive.

4. Insecurities

Everyone has some insecurities. No one is perfect, therefore no one is immune to having some sort of self-doubt. Spend some time improving your confidence before you start dating. Confidence doesn't come from any external source, it comes from within. Arrogance is included in this because we know that if you're arrogant, what you really are is insecure.

5. Being Ignored

One of the key ways most women judge how important they are to their partner is by how much attention they get from him when expressing concerns and opinions. Women are turned off when men act like other things are more important or more interesting, or when they casually dismiss something that's important to a woman. And when men show interest in the beginning of a relationship but then switch gears as things progress, a woman’s attraction for him often takes a dive too.

6. Selfish in bed

Are you a selfish lover in bed? It's going to turn a woman off very quickly. You can't have a woman in bed and take her for granted while you both are spending some intimate time together. If you don't compliment her or make her feel comfortable with you in bed, she's going to start thinking she isn't good for you. And women who don't feel good enough for men wouldn't like to spend such intimate time with them.

7. Narcissists

We all love ourselves .We all get carried away talking about our families or jobs. It happens. But narcissism takes that a step further. You probably think this isn’t you, but narcissists rarely know they are narcissists. If you are too busy looking at your phone to talk to her or spend more than half the date talking yourself up, you’re giving off those vibes. If you really want a girl to like you, you need to let her get to know you, even the stuff you’re not proud of. Being too self-involved is one of the major turn offs for women. If you care about others, that will naturally come through.

8. Oversensitive guys

Being sensitive is wonderful. You should be in touch with your feelings and be able to connect with your emotions. That is what we want. But, there is a difference between being sensitive and overly sensitive. Sensitive means you can be vulnerable and talk about important topics. Being overly sensitive means taking everything she says to heart. It means you are offended by things that aren’t about you. This is a major turn off for women.

9. Jealousy

No, jealousy is not this cute thing a guy feels when he’s protective. Jealousy is brought on by a lack of trust and the concept of ownership. No women wants to feel she is not in control of herself. If you are a jealous guy, get that under control before becoming a major turn off for women.

10. Not listening to other people

Not listening to others is high on the list of turn-offs for women. If you’re ignoring a girl on the first and second date, she probably won’t be interested in pursuing a relationship with you, and honestly? She probably shouldn’t be either. If you’re genuinely uninterested in spending time with a woman, or in listening to what she has to say, then what’s the point of asking her out? Listening to someone attentively is how you discover more about them.

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