The issue of mother Inlaw has become a problem in many young couples home and has ruin the relationship, happiness and union of many marriages. The issue of mother is not the first and will not be the last as part of any marriage problems. I see and hear many young ladies praying for their future mother Inlaw to die before they get married but the funny aspect about all this selfish prayers that they want God to answer is that one day the will also become mother Inlaw and a lady will be also praying for their death.
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Many young ladies report tension in their relationship with their mother-in-law, a misunderstanding that is associated with increased marital dissatisfaction. This issue really got me thinking about the stereotypical mother Inlaw, daughter Inlaw relationship whether this mother inlaws really like the wife that their sons get married to or maybe you are not the right partner that they want for their child. Below I will explain why you and your mother Inlaw might not get along smoothly.
Sometimes why your mother Inlaw dislike your might be because of your physical appearance (they way you dress, present or look is the way you will be addressed). Your mother Inlaw might be considering your height, good looks, physical fitness, complextion and your character and attitude towards them.
Secondly, your mother Inlaw may unconsciously discourage long term relationship by putting pressure on their male sons telling them not to put their eyes on one woman that is when their mother Inlaw dislikes you because you lack the characteristics that she want for her son.
Thirdly, direct competition for attention and resources. Many mother Inlaw out of what i call selfishness and amounts of love the have for their sons, will want their son to always give them attention, assistance and resources whenever they need it. But one thing that they forget is that their son is already married and has to focus and give his wife the assistance, resources and attention that she deserves,some mother Inlaws don't under this and that why the dislike the wife of their son because they feel their son is not giving her attention that she needs.
How to stop and reduce this conflict
The only way to reduce and stop this continuous problem it to try to convince your mother Inlaw and inlaws that you are a good mate and you are the right partner for their child.
Nobody is perfect for anybody God knows how he create us so they only advise and giving to young ladies who are about to get married is to pray that God should give them a loving, understanding, peaceful snd calm mother Inlaw.
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