We have seen marriages and relationships fallen apart with little or no knowledge of what causes disagreement between couples.
You and your partner know the importance of learning about each other to get close and deepen your relationship.
After one or two years of marraige, many couples early love buzz starts to fade, the polite gestures and words also starts to wear off. But, In the midst of all this, there are still rules that act as a glue that can keep couples together.
One advice I would give any woman is that, your marriage success depends on you. “A wise woman build her home with an attitude of love, forbearance, joy, kindness, faithfulness, humility and self-control”. Women are the homemakers.
Are you building your home or are you foolishly tearing it down with your own hands? When you wake up each morning, how do you react? Do you feel frustrated before your feet even hit the floor or do you wake up with cheerfulness and love?
A woman’s family is held together by her wisdom, but can be destroyed by her foolishness. Your actions has the power to draw your husband close to you and can also Chase him far away from home. The happiness in your home depends on you. By wisdom, a house is built and by understanding it is established.
A wife of noble character is far more precious than rubies.
This easy rules will help you both to live together feeling more loved, appreciated and valued.
Say Good Morning
As simple as it may sound, Good morning is a very magical word, it serves as an affirmation which gives room for a productive day and positive communication all day. When you wish your man a good morning, what you’re really saying is that it’s a good morning because you are together. Politeness is like a string that holds a relationship together. The two magic words is capable of calming his mind, even if he woke up from the wrong side.
When the alarm starts blaring, rather than forcefully snoozing the button or quickly jumping out of the bed to the bathroom, turn to your guy, plant a kiss on his forehead and say “Good morning!”. Same goes with Men to their wives. Many Researches indicates that more than 80 percent of couples who do this every day, have an excelent union and describe their relationship as above average.
Acknowledge Your Partners Kind Gestures.
There are things your man does for you like bringing you a cup of coffee in the morning, rubbing your back or buying you a gift and there are also things they do for the wellbeing of the relationship like working long hours at the office or their work place to keep food on the table and for other family wellfare. You should always thank the man in your life for the stuff they do explicitly for you, no matter how little it appears.
It is very important to acknowledge them, as this can make them to work more harder to make you happy and also improve your life and the relationship as a whole.
Always remember this, If you reaped any benefits from his actions, you need to thank him.
Don’t Cut Him Off
By nature, men are just as chatty as women are. If the man in your life isn’t much of a talker, it may be because you constantly interrupt him. It often happens when you cut him off before he’s had the chance to finish his sentence. If your partner is mostly silent, it’s usually because he doesn’t feel comfortable having a discussion with you. In a healthy relationship, both partners need to feel heard.
Praise Each Other in Public
Everyone crave compliments, especially men. Public accolade is very important, because it sends the message that you’re proud to be with your partner and you want the world to know it.
Give him sincere compliments, appeal to his masculinity. It will make him feel appreciated and loved. Men are not an exception to this.
My views though, please you can add yours so we can all learn from it to make the world a better place, a happy family leads to a happy community, a happy community leads to a happy nation.
Aside all these, what are the things you do (or doing) to make your relationship or marriage a happy one?
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