Ma Holla ma Lovelies!
So last time we talked about what a man should have before you marry him, if you haven’t seen it you should definitely check it out. Today we are talking about what a woman should have before you marry her, and frankly this not just for guys, it’s also for the girls who want to be married to highfliers (quality guys! Yes, I said it 🏃🏼♀️), so girllll! pull up a seat too, so you know what you need to work on while you wait for your ‘Knight in Shining Armour’.
As girls we actually think this marriage thing is so much easier for the guys, this is because a girl can’t propose to herself and or marry herself now, she has to wait for Prince Charming to find her.. pheww! Now I’ve met girls who don’t actually have any guy asking them out much less propose marriage, quite sad. So because we don’t want to miss these great guys when they come along, I mean quality deserves quality too right? right... Also for the guys so you know what to look out for in a woman, if you see the woman described below... she’s a keeper! Go ahead and put the ring on it 💍🥰
1_ Be God fearing!!!
Number one is the same for both the guys and the girls, this is because it is a central must have! If a person isn’t God fearing i.e. doesn’t fear, love Him deeply and respect Him, theres no boundary to what that person can do... especially when they are under pressure (they live their lives on their own terms). If a woman doesn’t fear God for instance, she’ll still be talking to the guys she dated before you. She can still call a man up for money, and who knows what she’ll do for that money.
2_ Be Submissive
The Bible was clear on this one, even though it’s been so greatly fought. Women don’t like to hear it, but guess what? Submission is actually a gift, if you really submit to a man there’s nothing that man won’t do for you. The man is the head of the woman and the home so yes, he should be treated as such. If a girl isn’t submissive you’ll have two captains in a boat, this means no peace at all in the home. If she’s submissive she won’t discuss your weaknesses and mistakes in public and diminish your reputation. A submissive woman covers her Head (the man).
3_ Be Sacrificial and Hospitable
If a woman isn’t sacrificial she will change on you the moment the money reduces or isn’t there anymore. She can’t manage with you until things get better, she has to have things the way she wants them or she frustrates you and or look for someone who can give her those fine things she likes to have. If she isn’t hospitable she will turn you away from your family and friends, she can’t have anyone around or share/give to anyone and she won’t let you give either.
4_ Be attractive to you
Truth be told physical appearance has never been a good reason to decide to marry a woman or even a man.. it fades, it can change e.g if there’s an accident and they loose something or get deformed what happens then? It made this particular list because we know men and how they eat with their eyes first, so if a man marries a woman he’s not attracted to, cheating is sure. He ll never be happy or home enough, also men are still beating and cheating on fine wives, how much more one who they are not attracted to.
So, we already know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder so... there’s no standard per say. Being attractive is beyond looks, the head should be working too (be intelligent, smart), enterprising, comely, fun.. all of that stuff that a guy likes lol.
There you have it! So if you’re planning to get into a long lasting happy marriage relationship pls do not joke with this list.. if you’re already in a relationship about to be married and she doesn’t have these, pls think again.. “a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage”
I know you’ll have the best marriage experience!
Till the next post..
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