Every relationship is unique, and people come together for many different reasons. Part of what defines a healthy relationship is sharing a common goal for exactly what you want the relationship to be and where you want it to go. And that’s something you’ll only know by talking deeply and honestly with your partner.
At the end of the day, men want a relationship where they can feel good about themselves and where they feel like they are with someone who is mature. Being able to communicate and compromise are just some aspects of a mature relationship. Men appreciate respect and having a partner who works together with them.
Although physical beauty is often something that attracts a man to a woman, he must also be attracted to other aspects: her personality, her heart, and the things that she finds important in life. Aging means that we won't all look the same years down the line as we did when we first met our spouses.
Men attends to women for two known reasons, SEX and LOVE, but in real cases, men do not marry for Sex or for Love, they marry for STABILITY.
Let me explain:
A man can Love you and still not marry you.
A man can have sex with you for years and still not marry you.
But immediately he finds someone who brings stability in his life, he marries her.
What I mean by Stability is "Peace of Mind"
I have seen so many guys who made this statement "I love this lady so much but I don't think I can spend the rest of my life with her." "This lady is so sweet in bed but I don't think I can marry her". Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids or most of the things ladies think is fanciful.
They think of whether this woman can build a home, can take care of his kids, can support his visions and dreams and also give him PEACE of mind.
While men do like women to depend on them for certain things, studies have shown that men find attractive women that are independent, self-supportive, and not needy. They might like you to ask them for their help, but being needy turns them off.
Men don't like Ladies who give them discomfort and who have nothing to offer them. This is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a short while and get married to her.
men want a life partner who will be trustworthy, faithful and reliable. They want a wife who will stand by their side and, considering divorce rates, it's no surprise that dependability would continue to be attractive
The comfort of having Peace of mind is the most paramount to every man.
Sex is a pleasure, love is an affection, RESPECT and PEACE is Stability .
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